PASH Australia

  • STUDY: 83% of women suffer post-childbirth sexual problems

    (Yet we STILL don't want to talk about SEX!)

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    No libido post baby? You're not alone. In fact, you're one of over two billion women experiencing the same problem. A study reviewed by Dr Terri Foran, Royal Hospital for Women sexual health physician, shows that nearly two-thirds of women experience ongoing sexual dysfunction six months post giving birth, with the common problems being orgasmic disorder, sexual desire dysfunction, sexual pain disorder and sexual arousal disorder.

    In reports about the UK study, Dr Foran is quoted as stating that 'sex and sexual problems are still something people are reticent to bring up.' She also discussed that they continue to see women with 'ongoing problems with pain, with issues around their libido, five, six, seven years down the track.'

    PASH Australia Founder and lapsed Registered Nurse, Jo Karabin commented: "As a mum of two, who experienced third-degree tears during the birth of both my babies, I know first-hand the challenges associated with resuming post-birth sexual relations.

    "I found that while there is great support about caring for your baby, there was little to no discussion, and certainly no information forthcoming, on how to re-engage with the sexual side of your relationship in a safe, non-threatening and, importantly non -painful way.''

    Many women experience vaginal dryness following birth due to hormonal changes which can affect enjoyment and cause additional pain. Studies show that women who breast-feed are more likely to report painful sex [2] and reduced libido, both due to hormonal changes.

    Jo continued, "Generally the advice is to wait four to six weeks before resuming sexual activity. But, of course, it depends on the level of vaginal trauma and how comfortable or ready the woman is in resuming activity. Many women are also uncomfortable with the physical changes that have occurred to their post baby body (we can't all be super models) and this can also impact their libido and self-confidence.

    "I'm so pleased that this study is being given some air time and finally raising the issue. In fact, one of the main motivators for creating PASH was to help women through this type of life challenge and I hope that through open discussion we can encourage women to seek help."

    Experts agree that the longer an issue goes untreated or addressed, the harder it is to treat.

    Jo Karabin also commented that she found it ironic that women ended up in the situation because they've had sex, yet no one proactively wants to discuss 'the topic' after the fact!

    "I personally find it so disappointing that it is still such a taboo topic when lack of intimacy can have such an negative impact on relationships, particularly when there are solutions that may help."

    PASH RECOMMENDED POST-BABY PRODUCTS

    JE JOUE AMI
    Kegel excercises are designed to tone and strengthen the pelvic muscle. A strong PC muscle is the key to greater urinary control and more intense orgasms, as well as a host of other benefits.

    You can practice Kegel excercises on your own by flexing and holding the PC muscle, but Kegel balls, like the Je Joue Ami, can help to focus the efforts more precisely. The Ami Kegel Ball collection is a set of three silicone balls with a small ball inside and are designed to work in a progressive program.

    A strong kegel workout program can also help before a pregnancy to prepare the muscles for delivery (although we don't recommend that they are used during pregnancy).

    SYSTEM JO LUBES & PERSONAL CARE

    System JO is made in the USA using only the finest pharmaceutical grade ingredients available. All products are plant-based, safe, non-toxic and not tested on animals.

    JO Agape Lubricant
    E specially formulated for women and was created to be the perfect sensual solution for women with sensitivities. This moisturising lubricant offers all the benefits of a water-based lubricant in an extra gentle formula. Its pH balance is perfect for women to use alone or with a partner.

    ·         Viscosity mimics a women’s natural moisture

    ·         Glycerine, silicone and oil free

    ·         Specially formulated for women with sensitivites

    ·         Silky smooth, never sticky or tacky

    ·         Recommended by doctors

    JO Renew Moisturiser
    Replenishes the body's natural feminine moisture to reduce irritation and dryness. This all-natural long lasting formula is glycerin free, hormone free, odourless and non-staining. Perfect for daily use as an intimate moisturiser as well as a personal lubricant.

    ABOUT PASH AUSTRALIA

    PASH is an Australian company created in 2005 and is a previous BRW Fast 100 recipient.

    PASH is a company dedicated to empowering women through information, support and sensual products to help them live happier, more fulfilling sexual lives. PASH promotes positive sexual wellness for women through all life stages and distributes a range of sensual products.

    PASH & SEXUAL WELLNESS

    No matter what people say, there are no 'normal' responses – desire, interest and sexual activity can vary greatly, even in one woman over the period of her life. Factors such as children, work, money, family, age, hormone levels and ill-health will affect the sexual wellness of every woman at different times. Learning to cope and adapt to change is vital to maintaining a healthy relationship with a partner, and, importantly, yourself.

    There are some monumental life-stages such as post-baby, ill health, menopause and mature age that may adversely affect a woman's sexual wellness. Our goal at PASH is to help women navigate through the various options available for support, and to provide references for expert help that may be suitable.

    The PASH Mission: To help every Australian woman live a happier, more fulfilled life by supporting her sexual wellness needs throughout her life.

    EXPERIENCE PASH

    The PASH Party Experience is an opportunity for women to get together to have open, honest adult conversations about the important topic of sexual wellness and how to enhance intimacy and relationships during all life stages. The PASH party provides inspiration and encourage to women.

    PASH YUMMY MUMMY EXPERIENCE

    The PASH Yummy Mummy Experience is designed as a get together for new mums to share information and discuss not only their sexual wellness needs, but also issues and challenges they are facing, in a comfortable, nurturing environment. PASH offers a range of products to assist in sexual wellness and libido enhancement for women post-baby (and ongoing through her life).

     

    1. "Sex after pregnancy: Let your body set the pace". Mayo Clinic. 30 May 2008. Retrieved 2009-08-07.

    2. Barrett, G; Pendry E; Peacock J; Victor C; Thakar R; Manyonda I (2000). "Women's sexual health after childbirth". BJOG (Wiley-Blackwell/Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists) 107 (2): 186–95.doi:10.1111/j.1471-0528.2000.tb11689.x.PMID 10688502.

  • GBalls of Sexual Pleasure and Pelvic Floor Health at PASH!

    Get the World’s first interactive pelvic floor trainer with App. GBalls2, now available at PASH Australia, provide a Pelvic Floor Program that helps both your sex life and your health!

    PASH is not just about providing fun and sexual pleasure for singles and couples, but Australia’s leading sensual products retailer is also concerned with the sexual health and wellbeing of Australian women.

    The latest product to join the PASH line up is the amazing new Gballs² which have their own “Magic Kegel” App and Pelvic Floor Exercise Program for a great way to take action and tune up your vaginal muscles.

    These love toy balls are not just designed for pleasure, but also to help women take control of their pelvic floor and tune their muscles to both enhance their sexual pleasure, but also to avoid stress incontinence, bladder leakages and other issues that can be a huge worry to women after child birth and as they get older.

    Stress incontinence can be a huge confidence wrecker for many women, and it can happen to all of us”, Jo Karabin, Founder of PASH. “But general vaginal health post baby is a significant issue to a women's long-term ability to enjoy a positive, satisfying sexual relationship with her partner and sadly it’s a topic not often discussed”, she said.

    "The most important is that we open the dialogue for women to talk about this issue and the new Gballs2 are a great way to get the discussion going at our parties”, says Karabin.

    Developed by an engineer specializing in silicones for space industry, the original Geisha Balls were designed to provide a new and different toy that would break the industry mould and help women experience new kinds of pleasure.

    The award winning design is essentially a hi-tech vibrator with not one, but two powerful motors; rechargeable battery for ease-of-use; and an ergonomic shape, designed in conjunction with gynecological experts.

    Gballs² is a bespoke sex-toy, innovative massager and effective stimulator made from premium silicone and highly attuned to women’s sensuality.

    Key features:

    • Ultra sensitive pressure sensor
    • Multiple sensors ensures accuracy of biofeedback
    • Splash‑proof
    • Silicone unified body
    • Bluetooth 4.0 technology
    • Wireless and low power consumption
    • Gballs² also works in non‑app mode

    Gballs² App and Program

    The Gballs² app “Magic Kegel” is available through App Store and Google Play and includes the following:

    Your personal coach for kegel exercises

    • Personalized virtual coach
    • 6 comprehensive training courses
    • Voice guide
    • Daily target
    • Badges & reward system

    Gballs² exercises can achieve great results through:

    • 6 individualized training courses
    • Exercising the right pelvic floor muscles
    • Guided daily exercises
    • Track daily exercise activity

    See the video below:

    GBALLS² IS AVAILABLE AT PASH AUSTRALIA $175 HERE

    WWW.PASHAUSTRALIA.COM.AU

  • The 24Ct Gold Vesper Vibrator Necklace - now at PASH!

    When is a necklace not a necklace?

    When it’s a 24Ct Gold Vesper Vibrator Necklace – and we've got some at PASH!

    It’s official, sex toys are now the must have accessory! A designer piece of jewellery that does a whole lot more than just look pretty around your neck, the new 24Ct Gold Vesper Vibrator necklace is now available at PASH, Australia’s leading sensual products retailer and party plan company.

    Take your fun everywhere you go…and no one will know!

    The Vesper Vibrator Necklace is both a gorgeous piece of jewellery and a strong slim vibrator! Designed for beautiful experiences in public and in private, the Vesper is a playful and sophisticated way to take your pleasure wherever you go.

    The exciting new product has recently won the Red Dot Award for Product Design 2015.

    Its slimline design looks like a beautiful pendant, and can sit with other jewellery or as a statement piece on its own.

    With a discreet on/off button and 4 speeds, the versatile Vesper is made from high polish 316 stainless steel and available in 3 colours: silver, rose gold and 24kt gold plated on a matching 26” chain.

    “We love this amazing new toy”, says Jo Karabin, founder and managing director of PASH. “It’s a brilliant design in every aspect, will last forever and has that cheekiness factor we love - only you know what your stunning piece of jewellery is really for!”

     

    USB rechargeable

    Use the supplied cable with any usb port. Led light on cable indicates charging status.

    WHISPER QUIET

    Vesper was designed to make a statement, not a sound!

    EASY TO CLEAN

    Vesper is water-resistant and splash-proof. The stainless steel body makes it easy to clean with damp cloth or toy wipe, but please don’t submerge it in water.

    Want to have this amazingly cool sensual accessory? Yours for $249!  Click HERE.

    All products at www.pashaustralia.com.au

     

  • Join Amber Lawrence to Support The Change Angels, July 24th

    Amber Lawrence will be the star attraction at The Change Angels’ Live Band Karaoke fundraiser for the Child Protection Unit, Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick

    Friday 24th July 2014, 7.30PM  at Coogee Diggers. Buy tickets HERE. 

    The award winning singer songwriter and reigning 2015 CMAA Golden Guitar Female Artist of the Year is lending her support to volunteer fundraisers, The Change Angels.

    Although Amber Lawrence is preparing for her national tour she will squeeze in a performance to help The Change Angels raise over $20,000 for the Child Protection Unit.

    “I just couldn't refuse to join The Change Angels at their Live Band Karaoke fundraiser to support the Child Protection Unit", said Ms Lawrence. "The fact I will be singing with a Live Band and not a karaoke machine on the night is a bonus!”

    “The statistics are so worrying, with one child dying every two weeks as a direct result of assault in Australia and one in three girls and one in six boys experiencing some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18".

    change angelsThe Change Angels is a volunteer organisation that  works tirelessly to promote child protection with the hope that that they can make a difference in the fight against child abuse and give children the chance to  grow up in a safe and loving environment.

    Through their fundraising activity The Change Angels help support the talented and dynamic team in the Child Protection Unit at Sydney Children's Hospital Foundation, through two programs that directly impact children who've been abused and neglected.

    Money raised at the LIVE BAND KARAOKE NIGHT on Friday 24th July at Coogee Diggers will help support therapy groups for children and young people who have been sexually abused and also support groups for their parents.

    These groups offer a safe place where children and parents deal with trauma in a friendly, non-judgemental environment.

    Children and young people learn they are not alone and are listened to and understood by other children, young people and trustworthy adults.

    In addition to the program for children and parents, the Occupational Therapy program helps to rehabilitate children in care, whose development has been impaired through the trauma of severe long-term abuse.

    Deanne Dale, Clinical Co-ordinator of the Child Protection Unit is incredibly appreciative of the work that The Change Angels do and how their support can help the lives of those people she works with.

    “We work at the coalface with some pretty horrifying cases, but we stay strong and focused on supporting the children, young people and their support networks throughout the ordeal”, said Ms Dale.

    “We treat children from newborns to 16 year olds and offer them medical treatment, counselling support and ongoing care throughout the crisis of trauma and beyond. When people like The Change Angels come along to support us we feel uplifted and so very grateful. They have already raised over $18,000 for us so far and are committed to raising another $20,000 for us at Live Band Karaoke”, said Ms Dale.

    Tickets are selling fast and sold out last year. Ticket price of $75 includes food and one standard drink with all profits going directly to the Child Protection Unit. Tickets cannot be purchased at the door.

    Buy your tickets HERE. 

    McGrath Coogee, Platinum Pre School and The Manildra Group are the generous sponsors of this event which would not be possible without their support.

     

  • How healthy is your sexuality?

    Are you feeling good about yourself; sensual, lustful and full of sexual confidence? Or is your libido sadly lacking and sexual self-confidence in free-fall?

    It seems that for many reasons we may have lost sight of the romance, the fun and the sexiness in our relationships. Do we simply “give up” on sex after a certain point? Get lazy in our relationships? And do the various ‘life stages’ we go through as women seriously affect our libido?

    We at PASH are aiming to turn around and look after the sexual health of Australian women; to stimulate sensuality, liven up your libido and restore you to tip top sexual health.

    Let us know (anonymously) how you're feeling sexually and sensually. The more info we have, the more we can help!

    Click on the link below and let us know about you. There are 5 x $50 PASH vouchers up for grabs if you leave your email to go into the draw.

    https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/PASHPARTIES2015

  • Book a Pash Party and learn why women are special

    Women are special. We menstruate, we have incredible emotional changes regularly and we get the lovely opportunity to have night sweats while we go through menopause. Of course with these experiences, we also can grow another human being, have boobs that can make heads turn and possibly have orgasms just by touching a tiny little area known as the clitoris.

    Over the last 15 years I have had the pleasure to work with thousands of women and share with them the glorious world of pampering products, bedroom accessories and relationship enhancement aides.

    During this time I have worked with single women, happily married couples, cancer fighters and survivors, women facing sexual health issues and even a few virgins! While each one of them have their own story and situation the one thing they have in common is that they embraced the opportunity to learn more about themselves.

    That is one reason why I encourage women to attend a ‘sex toy party’ such as a PASH parties. If done well, these parties provide women not only the chance to connect with their girlfriends but also to learn about their bodies, sexual health and become a more confident female. All of this wrapped up into a 2-3 hour party- what more could you want?

    A typical party includes a group of women who get together with a glass or two of bubbles in the comfort of someone’s home. The Consultant plays a game or two to make sure everyone is relaxed, and then gets into the ‘demo’.  This demo includes showing a variety of products and explaining the WHY, WHAT, WHEN and WHERE it should be used. The added bit of humour encourages people to laugh and not take anything too seriously, while the educational pieces helps bring awareness to aspects of their body or sexuality they may be unfamiliar with.

    These nights are designed to help women learn something they didn’t know- such as how to find the G-spot, why it is important to use lubricant during sex, how to increase your libido without a prescription and of course how to feel sexy and empowered. It is done in a tasteful manner and even if someone isn’t into the ‘love toys’ aspect of the party they won’t be made to feel awkward, in fact more often than not those who least expected it are the ones who buy the most product!

    If you are looking to get the girlfriends together, without the distraction of the men or children, I would recommend booking yourself a PASH party. You may be pleasantly surprised at what you will learn about yourself!

    Lisa Malnar

    Tough Love Advising

    Driving You Forward with the Truth

    http://www.toughloveadvising.com/

  • Now in store - the "X-Rated Selfie Stick"

    If you've already seen it on Facebook or online (because it's been getting loads of media interest all over the world) and thought "WOWSERS - get me one of those babies"...you'll be very happy indeed, because we now have the so-called "X-rated selfie stick" available in Australia from our PASH website and via our parties!

    So for all those lovers of the iPhone, iPod, iPad and other intelligent, personal gadgets, the Siime stimulator with remote video camera is the world’s first intelligent pleasure product and yours for $269.99. Click here to see it on our website.

    OK so it's not cheap, but this is a long term purchase and will keep you (and your partner) satisfied for a long, long time!

    Now a global phenomenon, the Siime is a stimulator with an inbuilt, remote Wi-Fi camera (named the "X-rated selfie stick" by the UK media), so you can capture and share intimate moments up close and very personal indeed!

    Designed in the USA, with creative shapes using 100% green, rechargeable technology, SVAKOM’s (the manufacturers of the Siime) high quality line of products have the fastest recharging time in the industry, intelligent software that imitates the complete sex process and self-heating technology to give the best, most realistic pleasure possible.

    This is really exciting for us – in more ways than one! It’s incredible to have this sort of technology for stimulator products and given the sales these products are enjoying around the world, we’re sure you guys are going to be queuing up to order yours!

    Whether you’re with your partner or miles away, you’ll be able to share your most intimate moments – via FaceTime if you like! What you do with it is up to you!

    The SVAKOM Siime is made from high grade silicone, is water resistant and enjoys the following features:

    • HD Camera
    • All recordings and photos can be uploaded to a PC or smart device
    • Up to 30m wireless connection
    • 6 Vibration Modes

    Unbelievably quiet, yet powerful motors provide varying speed and intensity to maximize pleasure.

    SVAKOM intelligent technology provides a program mode that imitates the full sexual process from the prelude, through build up, to climax, down to the last gentle caress.

    Extremely easy and intuitive to use for maximum pleasure, the sensuous curves effortlessly glide over you or your partner’s body and the varying speeds will bring many levels of complete satisfaction.

    Jo x

  • Make your sexual happiness happen for International Women's Day

    Sexual happiness seems frivolous and a rather flippant subject to be talking about with regards to something as important as International Women’s Day (Sunday, March 8th), but think about it: How much is sexuality linked to women’s happiness?

    All over the world, women are still subjugated, genitally mutilated, raped, disrespected, hidden or ignored in the home and society; passed over in business, community and political roles - all purely because of their sexuality.

    This doesn’t just go on in Third World countries. This is going on here and now, in Australia, in the USA, in Europe. Misogyny is still very much alive and kicking. And women are still very unhappy and very unfulfilled. And here comes the frivolous bit if you like, but it’s actually very serious.

    How unhappy have you been throughout your life due to an unfulfilled relationship, or lack of one? How often have you felt unsexy, unattractive, unhappy and unsatisfied, because you’re on your own, don’t feel you can get a partner or because you’re in a failing relationship where sex has gone out of the window or has become that once-in-a-blue-moon and often dreaded occurrence?

    How much has this affected your overall confidence and self-respect or self-belief?

    How often have you wondered what it must be like to be one of those sassy, successful women who seem really sexy, self-assured and seem to walk with a different gait, a confidence that you don’t feel you have?

    b37613be0fa171e08ec4aa6b9912b3fePeople paper over it and say relationships aren’t all about sex. No they’re not. They’re about love, commitment, mutual respect and a common goal.

    But honestly, would you be happier and more confident in your relationship and in yourself if you and your partner were really ringing each other’s bells on a more regular basis? Would you feel sexier, more confident, more self-assured?

    Of course you would!

    Sexual happiness should be talked about. It is, or should be, a very important part of you and of your relationship. When you and your partner are truly fulfilled in the bedroom, your relationship is so much better. There is more mutual and self-respect, more camaraderie, more fun, more trust.

    Being sexually and sensually confident is completely aligned to self-respect. If you treat yourself right, feel good about yourself, accept yourself for who you are, you exude confidence and you feel so much more attractive. But you must also be confident enough to stop other people treating you badly and putting you down to squash your self-belief.

    If you’re in a relationship with someone who belittles you, disrespects you and makes you unhappy, take control and rediscover your old self-respect and mojo. Rediscover the real you that’s bursting to get out. This year’s theme of International Women’s Day is Make it Happen.

    All we want to say is: Make your happiness happen. Make your sexual fulfilment happselfconfidence1en. Make your confidence happen. Make 2015 the year of YOU.

    Get out there. Take control of your body and your self-confidence. Get in shape.

    Get some sexy underwear (it always makes a girl feel good!), look after yourself, pamper yourself.

    Now repeat after me: "I am sexy, I am beautiful, I am confident, I am equal, I am powerful, I am woman".

    Make it happen.

    Jo x

  • Create your own “red room” experience with Fifty Shades...

    This weekend sees the launch of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie, starring the oh-so-sexy Jamie Dornan (who apparently doesn’t take his clothes off enough in the film).

    The book was a roaring success and gave women all over the world permission to explore the less ‘vanilla’ side of sex, even if it was only in their own mental fantasy world! Nothing wrong with a bit of fantasy, we say.

    While not tipped to be quite as raunchy as the book, the film is bound to bring out a desire to explore the boundaries, which is a great thing and we hope that women will be inspired to try new things and bring out their inner sensuality.

    PASH has a new range of official EL James Fifty Shades of Grey products for all you women keen to discover your own red room experience, which is really exciting and we certainly anticipate selling a lot more sensual products, love toys and accessories in the coming months, as Aussie couples spice it up!

    What better excuse to stock up on your bedroom props and have a little fun with your partner, because spicing it up in the bedroom and adding some props, surprises and sensual body treats can only be GREAT for a relationship, not matter what stage it’s at.

    Here are our top five products to get you Fifty Shades ready:

    1. Fifty Shades of Grey leatherette studded mask - $14.95Silk Ties 2
    2. Playful in Pearls - Pearl Satin Whip - $29.95
    3. Fifty Shades of Grey Massage candle in scintillating lotus fragrance $19.95
    4. Fifty Shades of Grey Silk Ties $14.95
    5. Fifty Shades of Grey Silver Pleasure Balls set $41.95

    What are you waiting for. Get steamy and create your own “red room” experience ;)

  • The Art of Seduction

    seduction with chocolate

    With Valentine's Day the next big day on the calendar, it's time to remember that not everyone has found love yet and some of those who have are simply trying to keep the fires burning! Learning how to seduce your new lover, or re-introduce the spark with an existing lover can be an exciting experience for all involved.

    The vital ingredients for successful seduction are confidence and playfulness: Be willing to step outside your comfort zone and become that sexy seductress waiting to burst forth from within (the good news is that it's easier than you think)!

    Here are our Dos and Don'ts for successful seduction:

    DON'T BE NEEDY

    Neediness and seduction are mutually exclusive. The more desperate you are, the less attracted ot you your partner will be. The very last thing you want to do is make the person feel pressured. If you want to seduce someone who's quite independent, you may also benefit from learning how to tame a free spirit.

    • Even if you feel neediness coming on, don't give in. Think of it this way: Your needs will be met at some point down the line, but maybe not now. Delayed gratification.
    • Get a devil-may-care attitude when you're seducing that special someone. Be a little bit reckless (within reason): Do something a little risque or unexpected to keep them guessing. Maybe go out to the beach in the middle of the night. Or go on an unannounced trip for a couple of days. Try to cultivate a little bit of mystery.

    RELAX

    The more comfortable you feel, the more comfortable the other person will feel around you, and the more receptive they'll be to your affection.

    • Walk somewhere close instead of driving. Even just 10 minutes of physical activity can reduce stress and help you relax.
    • Listen to music that's proven to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and fight an elevated heart rate.

    BE PLAYFUL

    Smile, flirt, touch and tease. Don't be too serious, people enjoy having a good time. Have fun with this person. Enjoy the game.

    • Studies have found that a playful attitude makes people more attractive.[2]Playfulness in males signals non-aggression, while in females it signals youth and fertility.
    • Humour, too, is another crucial aspect of your personality that plays a role in attractiveness. A study has found that women are more likely to give their phone number to men who use humor[3], while men too perceive humour as being an attractive trait in women.[4]
    • Be able to make fun of yourself. People generally don't like other people who can't take a joke or get offended when anything bad about them gets said. Don't be that person. Be able to take criticism in stride. Hey, if you dish it out to other people (and you should; playfulness is attractive) you should also be able to take it.

    DON'T ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE

    People enjoy being with other people who have exciting and interesting things going on in their lives, because they feel happy at the prospect of someone like that sharing their precious time with them. So what will you achieve if you are trying to meet with them or talk to them every moment? Nothing. It's best not to overwhelm the other person with your time, and let the relationship unfold at a more measured pace.

    • On some occasions, if a person asks you for a date, don't immediately agree. Say you'll check your calendar first, and then agree. Even if you have nothing going on, play it cool. That way, your social appearance will be enhanced by a simple trick.
    • That being said, fill your calendar with real events and real people. There's no substitute for the real thing. You'll actually be happier and feel more fulfilled if you're out and about than if you're sitting at home twiddling your thumbs.

    USE CONFIDENT BODY LANGUAGE

    Move confidently. Most people are not attracted to wallflowers, but to people who are sure of themselves. Don't forget to smile and, if possible, make body contact when appropriate and not intrusive. Use eye contact - lock eyes with your partner or date to show you're engaged and interested.

    DON'T BE AN OPEN BOOK. 

    Leave something to the imagination. You should not share everything about you with the other person: mystery is always attractive. It makes people realize they don't know the whole you, and this secrecy will give off a seductive aura.

    Resist the urge to tell this person about your entire life story, and especially your parents. Not that parents aren't great; they're just not very seductive!

    BE PATIENT. 
     
    Wait for their desire for you to catch up with your desire for them. Believe that it's only a matter of time, that they just need to discover how awesome you really are. If you don't believe that, then you can't seduce anyone. But the fact is that we naturally become attracted to anyone who we feel comfortable with, makes us laugh, and is slightly out of reach (because of the thrill of the unknown). It's human nature.
      1. http://www.active.com/mindandbody/articles/31_Ways_to_Relax_in_10_Minutes_or_Less.htm?page=2
      2.  http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/9453842/Playful-people-more-attractive.html
      3.  http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/humor-sapiens/201106/are-women-more-attracted-men-who-court-them-humor
      4.  http://www.psypost.org/2010/04/both-women-and-men-report-a-good-sense-of-humor-as-attractive-511
      5.  http://www.livescience.com/20630-male-touch-woman-flush.html

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