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  • How healthy is your sexuality?

    Are you feeling good about yourself; sensual, lustful and full of sexual confidence? Or is your libido sadly lacking and sexual self-confidence in free-fall?

    It seems that for many reasons we may have lost sight of the romance, the fun and the sexiness in our relationships. Do we simply “give up” on sex after a certain point? Get lazy in our relationships? And do the various ‘life stages’ we go through as women seriously affect our libido?

    We at PASH are aiming to turn around and look after the sexual health of Australian women; to stimulate sensuality, liven up your libido and restore you to tip top sexual health.

    Let us know (anonymously) how you're feeling sexually and sensually. The more info we have, the more we can help!

    Click on the link below and let us know about you. There are 5 x $50 PASH vouchers up for grabs if you leave your email to go into the draw.

    https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/PASHPARTIES2015

  • Book a Pash Party and learn why women are special

    Women are special. We menstruate, we have incredible emotional changes regularly and we get the lovely opportunity to have night sweats while we go through menopause. Of course with these experiences, we also can grow another human being, have boobs that can make heads turn and possibly have orgasms just by touching a tiny little area known as the clitoris.

    Over the last 15 years I have had the pleasure to work with thousands of women and share with them the glorious world of pampering products, bedroom accessories and relationship enhancement aides.

    During this time I have worked with single women, happily married couples, cancer fighters and survivors, women facing sexual health issues and even a few virgins! While each one of them have their own story and situation the one thing they have in common is that they embraced the opportunity to learn more about themselves.

    That is one reason why I encourage women to attend a ‘sex toy party’ such as a PASH parties. If done well, these parties provide women not only the chance to connect with their girlfriends but also to learn about their bodies, sexual health and become a more confident female. All of this wrapped up into a 2-3 hour party- what more could you want?

    A typical party includes a group of women who get together with a glass or two of bubbles in the comfort of someone’s home. The Consultant plays a game or two to make sure everyone is relaxed, and then gets into the ‘demo’.  This demo includes showing a variety of products and explaining the WHY, WHAT, WHEN and WHERE it should be used. The added bit of humour encourages people to laugh and not take anything too seriously, while the educational pieces helps bring awareness to aspects of their body or sexuality they may be unfamiliar with.

    These nights are designed to help women learn something they didn’t know- such as how to find the G-spot, why it is important to use lubricant during sex, how to increase your libido without a prescription and of course how to feel sexy and empowered. It is done in a tasteful manner and even if someone isn’t into the ‘love toys’ aspect of the party they won’t be made to feel awkward, in fact more often than not those who least expected it are the ones who buy the most product!

    If you are looking to get the girlfriends together, without the distraction of the men or children, I would recommend booking yourself a PASH party. You may be pleasantly surprised at what you will learn about yourself!

    Lisa Malnar

    Tough Love Advising

    Driving You Forward with the Truth

    http://www.toughloveadvising.com/

  • Now in store - the "X-Rated Selfie Stick"

    If you've already seen it on Facebook or online (because it's been getting loads of media interest all over the world) and thought "WOWSERS - get me one of those babies"...you'll be very happy indeed, because we now have the so-called "X-rated selfie stick" available in Australia from our PASH website and via our parties!

    So for all those lovers of the iPhone, iPod, iPad and other intelligent, personal gadgets, the Siime stimulator with remote video camera is the world’s first intelligent pleasure product and yours for $269.99. Click here to see it on our website.

    OK so it's not cheap, but this is a long term purchase and will keep you (and your partner) satisfied for a long, long time!

    Now a global phenomenon, the Siime is a stimulator with an inbuilt, remote Wi-Fi camera (named the "X-rated selfie stick" by the UK media), so you can capture and share intimate moments up close and very personal indeed!

    Designed in the USA, with creative shapes using 100% green, rechargeable technology, SVAKOM’s (the manufacturers of the Siime) high quality line of products have the fastest recharging time in the industry, intelligent software that imitates the complete sex process and self-heating technology to give the best, most realistic pleasure possible.

    This is really exciting for us – in more ways than one! It’s incredible to have this sort of technology for stimulator products and given the sales these products are enjoying around the world, we’re sure you guys are going to be queuing up to order yours!

    Whether you’re with your partner or miles away, you’ll be able to share your most intimate moments – via FaceTime if you like! What you do with it is up to you!

    The SVAKOM Siime is made from high grade silicone, is water resistant and enjoys the following features:

    • HD Camera
    • All recordings and photos can be uploaded to a PC or smart device
    • Up to 30m wireless connection
    • 6 Vibration Modes

    Unbelievably quiet, yet powerful motors provide varying speed and intensity to maximize pleasure.

    SVAKOM intelligent technology provides a program mode that imitates the full sexual process from the prelude, through build up, to climax, down to the last gentle caress.

    Extremely easy and intuitive to use for maximum pleasure, the sensuous curves effortlessly glide over you or your partner’s body and the varying speeds will bring many levels of complete satisfaction.

    Jo x

  • Make your sexual happiness happen for International Women's Day

    Sexual happiness seems frivolous and a rather flippant subject to be talking about with regards to something as important as International Women’s Day (Sunday, March 8th), but think about it: How much is sexuality linked to women’s happiness?

    All over the world, women are still subjugated, genitally mutilated, raped, disrespected, hidden or ignored in the home and society; passed over in business, community and political roles - all purely because of their sexuality.

    This doesn’t just go on in Third World countries. This is going on here and now, in Australia, in the USA, in Europe. Misogyny is still very much alive and kicking. And women are still very unhappy and very unfulfilled. And here comes the frivolous bit if you like, but it’s actually very serious.

    How unhappy have you been throughout your life due to an unfulfilled relationship, or lack of one? How often have you felt unsexy, unattractive, unhappy and unsatisfied, because you’re on your own, don’t feel you can get a partner or because you’re in a failing relationship where sex has gone out of the window or has become that once-in-a-blue-moon and often dreaded occurrence?

    How much has this affected your overall confidence and self-respect or self-belief?

    How often have you wondered what it must be like to be one of those sassy, successful women who seem really sexy, self-assured and seem to walk with a different gait, a confidence that you don’t feel you have?

    b37613be0fa171e08ec4aa6b9912b3fePeople paper over it and say relationships aren’t all about sex. No they’re not. They’re about love, commitment, mutual respect and a common goal.

    But honestly, would you be happier and more confident in your relationship and in yourself if you and your partner were really ringing each other’s bells on a more regular basis? Would you feel sexier, more confident, more self-assured?

    Of course you would!

    Sexual happiness should be talked about. It is, or should be, a very important part of you and of your relationship. When you and your partner are truly fulfilled in the bedroom, your relationship is so much better. There is more mutual and self-respect, more camaraderie, more fun, more trust.

    Being sexually and sensually confident is completely aligned to self-respect. If you treat yourself right, feel good about yourself, accept yourself for who you are, you exude confidence and you feel so much more attractive. But you must also be confident enough to stop other people treating you badly and putting you down to squash your self-belief.

    If you’re in a relationship with someone who belittles you, disrespects you and makes you unhappy, take control and rediscover your old self-respect and mojo. Rediscover the real you that’s bursting to get out. This year’s theme of International Women’s Day is Make it Happen.

    All we want to say is: Make your happiness happen. Make your sexual fulfilment happselfconfidence1en. Make your confidence happen. Make 2015 the year of YOU.

    Get out there. Take control of your body and your self-confidence. Get in shape.

    Get some sexy underwear (it always makes a girl feel good!), look after yourself, pamper yourself.

    Now repeat after me: "I am sexy, I am beautiful, I am confident, I am equal, I am powerful, I am woman".

    Make it happen.

    Jo x

  • Create your own “red room” experience with Fifty Shades...

    This weekend sees the launch of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie, starring the oh-so-sexy Jamie Dornan (who apparently doesn’t take his clothes off enough in the film).

    The book was a roaring success and gave women all over the world permission to explore the less ‘vanilla’ side of sex, even if it was only in their own mental fantasy world! Nothing wrong with a bit of fantasy, we say.

    While not tipped to be quite as raunchy as the book, the film is bound to bring out a desire to explore the boundaries, which is a great thing and we hope that women will be inspired to try new things and bring out their inner sensuality.

    PASH has a new range of official EL James Fifty Shades of Grey products for all you women keen to discover your own red room experience, which is really exciting and we certainly anticipate selling a lot more sensual products, love toys and accessories in the coming months, as Aussie couples spice it up!

    What better excuse to stock up on your bedroom props and have a little fun with your partner, because spicing it up in the bedroom and adding some props, surprises and sensual body treats can only be GREAT for a relationship, not matter what stage it’s at.

    Here are our top five products to get you Fifty Shades ready:

    1. Fifty Shades of Grey leatherette studded mask - $14.95Silk Ties 2
    2. Playful in Pearls - Pearl Satin Whip - $29.95
    3. Fifty Shades of Grey Massage candle in scintillating lotus fragrance $19.95
    4. Fifty Shades of Grey Silk Ties $14.95
    5. Fifty Shades of Grey Silver Pleasure Balls set $41.95

    What are you waiting for. Get steamy and create your own “red room” experience ;)

  • The Art of Seduction

    seduction with chocolate

    With Valentine's Day the next big day on the calendar, it's time to remember that not everyone has found love yet and some of those who have are simply trying to keep the fires burning! Learning how to seduce your new lover, or re-introduce the spark with an existing lover can be an exciting experience for all involved.

    The vital ingredients for successful seduction are confidence and playfulness: Be willing to step outside your comfort zone and become that sexy seductress waiting to burst forth from within (the good news is that it's easier than you think)!

    Here are our Dos and Don'ts for successful seduction:

    DON'T BE NEEDY

    Neediness and seduction are mutually exclusive. The more desperate you are, the less attracted ot you your partner will be. The very last thing you want to do is make the person feel pressured. If you want to seduce someone who's quite independent, you may also benefit from learning how to tame a free spirit.

    • Even if you feel neediness coming on, don't give in. Think of it this way: Your needs will be met at some point down the line, but maybe not now. Delayed gratification.
    • Get a devil-may-care attitude when you're seducing that special someone. Be a little bit reckless (within reason): Do something a little risque or unexpected to keep them guessing. Maybe go out to the beach in the middle of the night. Or go on an unannounced trip for a couple of days. Try to cultivate a little bit of mystery.

    RELAX

    The more comfortable you feel, the more comfortable the other person will feel around you, and the more receptive they'll be to your affection.

    • Walk somewhere close instead of driving. Even just 10 minutes of physical activity can reduce stress and help you relax.
    • Listen to music that's proven to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and fight an elevated heart rate.

    BE PLAYFUL

    Smile, flirt, touch and tease. Don't be too serious, people enjoy having a good time. Have fun with this person. Enjoy the game.

    • Studies have found that a playful attitude makes people more attractive.[2]Playfulness in males signals non-aggression, while in females it signals youth and fertility.
    • Humour, too, is another crucial aspect of your personality that plays a role in attractiveness. A study has found that women are more likely to give their phone number to men who use humor[3], while men too perceive humour as being an attractive trait in women.[4]
    • Be able to make fun of yourself. People generally don't like other people who can't take a joke or get offended when anything bad about them gets said. Don't be that person. Be able to take criticism in stride. Hey, if you dish it out to other people (and you should; playfulness is attractive) you should also be able to take it.

    DON'T ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE

    People enjoy being with other people who have exciting and interesting things going on in their lives, because they feel happy at the prospect of someone like that sharing their precious time with them. So what will you achieve if you are trying to meet with them or talk to them every moment? Nothing. It's best not to overwhelm the other person with your time, and let the relationship unfold at a more measured pace.

    • On some occasions, if a person asks you for a date, don't immediately agree. Say you'll check your calendar first, and then agree. Even if you have nothing going on, play it cool. That way, your social appearance will be enhanced by a simple trick.
    • That being said, fill your calendar with real events and real people. There's no substitute for the real thing. You'll actually be happier and feel more fulfilled if you're out and about than if you're sitting at home twiddling your thumbs.

    USE CONFIDENT BODY LANGUAGE

    Move confidently. Most people are not attracted to wallflowers, but to people who are sure of themselves. Don't forget to smile and, if possible, make body contact when appropriate and not intrusive. Use eye contact - lock eyes with your partner or date to show you're engaged and interested.

    DON'T BE AN OPEN BOOK. 

    Leave something to the imagination. You should not share everything about you with the other person: mystery is always attractive. It makes people realize they don't know the whole you, and this secrecy will give off a seductive aura.

    Resist the urge to tell this person about your entire life story, and especially your parents. Not that parents aren't great; they're just not very seductive!

    BE PATIENT. 
     
    Wait for their desire for you to catch up with your desire for them. Believe that it's only a matter of time, that they just need to discover how awesome you really are. If you don't believe that, then you can't seduce anyone. But the fact is that we naturally become attracted to anyone who we feel comfortable with, makes us laugh, and is slightly out of reach (because of the thrill of the unknown). It's human nature.
      1. http://www.active.com/mindandbody/articles/31_Ways_to_Relax_in_10_Minutes_or_Less.htm?page=2
      2.  http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/9453842/Playful-people-more-attractive.html
      3.  http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/humor-sapiens/201106/are-women-more-attracted-men-who-court-them-humor
      4.  http://www.psypost.org/2010/04/both-women-and-men-report-a-good-sense-of-humor-as-attractive-511
      5.  http://www.livescience.com/20630-male-touch-woman-flush.html
  • Embarrassing Sex Story

    Almost everyone we know has a hilarious, embarrassing or downright awful sex story up their sleeve.

    Whether it was woman in beda one-night stand gone wrong or a first time in the sack that left something to be desired, we’re taking a look at some of the funniest sex stories we’ve heard in a while. If you have one to add, make sure you leave us a comment! Click on the link below to check some funny stories.

    The pass-out princess

    I was so excited to go on a third date with this guy I really liked and figured this would be the night where we slept together. But I was also really nervous about it since I hadn’t been with a guy since my ex the year before, so I started drinking as soon as we got to the restaurant — and didn’t stop. By the time we got to his place and he was trying to get my bra off, I must have passed out in his bed! He was really sweet about it the next day and even teased me a bit, but my hangover combined with passing out on him really made me feel disgusting. At least I didn’t puke on him.

    Meghan, Calgary, Alberta

    http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/981961/embarrassing-sex-story-time-funny-stories-revealed

  • Do women want TOO MUCH sex?

    Looks like the government is finally doing something right - Tony Abbot is offering sex lessons for couples! Now there is a good use of tax payer funds if every I heard one...

    Ok, so Tony Abbott isn't actually personally giving the lessons (much to everyone's relief I'm sure), according to the Sunday Telegraph, Relationships Australia is running group sessions on 'sex and desire' under the government funded relationship counselling scheme.

    According to the article, the educators running the five-hour course have revealed that they have discovered that interestingly it is the women, not the men, who are complaining about the lack of frequency and quality of sex.  It would appear that the men are the ones under pressure to perform.

    Men and women generally view sex in different ways - men generally see sex as leading to intimacy, where as women tend to see intimacy as leading on to sex - and this can lead to a clash in expectations.

    The program that Relationship Australia runs looks like it is actually provide a healthy focus for couples on how to stay together by helping them develop their communication skills and, as a company dedicated to enhancing relationships, we applaud that.

    Having not indulged in such a course, I'm not sure what they relay to the couples in relation to products that can help with sexual dissatisfaction issues? If anyone has any experience in attending these type of courses, I'd love to know more.

    A key focus for PASH is helping reconnect couples by ensuring there is a sizzle in the bedroom. Our range of products are designed to help ensure BOTH partners stay happy - whether it is keeping the man harder for longer so she can have more pleasure or providing stimulating products that help her orgasm - there is something for every occasion. Of course, the fun is in the research!

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    Yours PASHionately

    Jo x

  • The Mysterious G-Spot Unveiled

    The G-spot is one of life's mysteries. Scientists and sexperts have been arguing over the G-spot for years but most now agree that for some women it does exist, and what we do know is that it can lead to amazing orgasms.

    But, of course, you need to know HOW to find it. So here's how to find your G-spot - and even if you don't, you'll have a lot of fun trying!

    What is the G-spot?

    The G-spot is a super-sensitive area found inside the front wall of the vagina. When it's stimulated, like the clitoris, it can bring you to orgasm quicker than just penetrative sex.

    Why is the G-spot so special?

    Deborah Sundahl, expert on female ejaculation and author of Female Ejaculation and the G-spot says, 'The G-spot has a unique orgasm, which is different from the clitoris. This is due to the fact that the prostate has a different nerve (pelvic) than the clitoris (pudendal), and therefore the G-spot has a different orgasmic sensation. This feeling is one of deep, melting love, and women love it!'

    Does every woman have a G-spot?

    Well, the jury's still out on this one, sexpert Lou Paget says, 'Yes, the G-spot exists, but every woman is different. For some it's an off-the-wall experience and others feel nothing. In the same way that some women have especially sensitive nipples and others don't.'

    Why do we have a G-spot?

    Some medical evidence suggests that the G-spot has a purpose other than to make you feel really, really good! Sexpert Emily Dubberley, says, 'Some scientists believe the G-spot can help ease childbirth because when the G-spot is stimulated the pain threshold is increased by up to 84%.'

    So if you're planning a baby any time soon, it could be worth investigating!

    Can the G-spot give you a guaranteed orgasm?

    'There's no such thing as a guaranteed orgasm,' says Emily, 'But knowing whether G-spot stimulation works for you is certainly a good thing - the better you know your body, the higher your chances of having an orgasm.'

    Is it true the G-spot can make you ejaculate?

    Recent research found that some women can ejaculate through sex, foreplay or by having their G-spot stimulated but it's different to the way men ejaculate - women do it before they orgasm. But don't get hung up on whether you are ejaculating or not. Sex and relationship psychologist Dr Petra Boynton says, 'Some men are convinced that if a woman doesn't ejaculate she hasn't had a 'good' orgasm. But this is often an idea that comes from porn and usually it's faked or it's just urine. If you're being made to feel inferior make it clear to him this isn't a turn on for you, instead show him what does work.'

    How do I find my G-spot?

    There's no harm in having a feel around yourself to see if you can find it.

    Inside the vagina there's a small patch of ridged, knobbly tissue about 2 1/2 - 5 cms. It's on the front wall of the vagina, so if you're lying on your back and you can feel it with your fingers, they would be pointing up to the ceiling rather than down to the floor. You should notice a rougher patch of skin in comparison to the smooth areas either side - bingo! You've found it.

    Or try this tip from Lou Paget:

    'Rather than lying on a bed it may be easier to be squat down and feel inside of yourself, but make sure you're a bit aroused first. Women's fingers can sometimes be too small or short to reach inside so a G-spot toy or a partner's fingers might find it more easily.'

    'It is possible to actually sit down in front of a big mirror on the floor, spread the labia lips, push out with the vaginal muscles and see the G-spot!' says Deborah Sundahl. 'You can see the ridges. I advise all women to take a look and get acquainted with this lovely female organ.'

    I can't feel anything!

    Don't worry, you're completely normal. Dr Petra says, 'You're not superior if you have a part of your vagina that feels good when touched, and you're not abnormal if you don't get turned on by having the G-spot/area stimulated - we're all different. And don't forget the other areas of the body that turn you on.'

    Are there toys I can use that will help me find my G-Spot?

    The appropriately named 'G-Vibe' is the perfect toy for starting the discovery journey. This exciting toy has motors in both tips, which perfectly conform to the female anatomy, including attention to the G-spot location. The unique feature of the G-Vibe lies in its unique simultaneous stimulation of the two sides of the vagina - G-Spot and the opposite side.

    G-vibe 2

    http://www.pashparties.com.au/index.php/shop/sale/g-vibe.html

  • What's next in sex?

    Just when I think I’ve seen it all (and believe me when I say researching products for PASH is an ongoing eye opening experience!), out comes a new product and I’m once again quizzically enquiring:  ‘Ok, so what exactly IS that and what do you do with it?’.

    My most recent education came with the launch of the Toynary Oral Sex Vibrator – a love toy for your mouth – which provides a stimulating oral sex experience.

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    The Toynary is all about providing extreme pleasure for men! It is an innovative oral sex vibrating toy that you simply clip on the mouth, switch it on and give him an oral sex while it vibrates. It will completely change your partner's (and your) oral sex experience. This toy may be small, but it is mighty - it provides 3 vibration speeds, 7 vibration modes, 40 mins of vibration, it is rechargeable and waterproof.  If you’re not so keen on the oral vibrations, it can also be used in the hand.

    To be honest, I’m most impressed these days with sleek, aesthetically pleasing designs which are appealing to women, and the Toynary certainly fits the bill. Thankfully the days of the flesh coloured, veined phallic ‘styles’ are confined to the realms of dark and sleazy sex shops and less than desirable online stores.

    Thankfully, PASH customers tend to be more savvy – women know what they want and they actively seek out products which are higher quality, are made from safe materials and have high functionality.

    Of course with our ever curious generation ‘iTouch’ now turning into adults and seeking boudoir products that still meet their tech saavy minds, I’m predicting we will start to see a lot of cross-over with content in a virtual sense. Products that are embedded with chips that connect users – a whole new virtual experience awaits!

    Toynary available from www.pashparties.com.au RRP: $69.95

    http://www.pashparties.com.au/index.php/shop/love-toys/we-vibe-and-friends/toynary-oral-vibrator.htmltoyrnary mouth

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